Why Marty . . .Why Here?

[franny2]

I have read every . . . single . . . bloody . . . post . . .on the org since I signed on about a month ago.
Just went back to check and it now stands at 13,331 . . . am i completely off my rocker?

So I've gone back to the question of WHY am I doing this. I have seen many, many members ask themselves the same thing and come up with some great answers, but I thought it would be interesting to hear them again, now that we've been here for a while.

I am a happy, busy person - with a husband, children, pets, and lots of family and friends. I have a house and garden (two fancy words which really mean high maintenance), a career, a shelf full of books I can't wait to read, and I can't even count how many varied interests and little obsessions. I'm not twiddling my thumbs looking for something to do, and yet I come here almost every day to get my fix. Why?

This fascination with Marty really kind of crept up on me. I liked him a lot the first time I saw him, and liked him even more the next. But somewhere along the way I actually fell in love with him . . . not the will you please come and marry me kind of love. . . but in love with who Marty was as a person and as an artist . . . with what he stood for and what he gave, and with the insane heights he reached in his performances.

I loved the way he managed to get inside my soul, to all the secret places I had caged up long ago - probably because I had other things to do. Around the time I started to fall in love with him, the cage doors had already started rattling and by the time Rockstar was over, whatever had been in that cage was in full, headlong flight. I had a burning drive to do . . . something.

I suddenly found energy to go after those things again that I had always been driven to do. I wanted to keep the fires burning so I went looking for The Lovehammers, found mc.org, and against my better judgement got totally and completely hooked. It's like a really good book that I just can't put down. I went looking for Marty, and in the process found all of you. What a fabulous group of people he has reached - every one of you have managed to impress me in some way or another. You are a big part of why I'm here, and the other reason is that, for what he has given me, I would probably follow this man anywhere. We've seen the blossoming of a star . . . it's going to be a wild trip and I really want to be a part of it . . . so I'm here to ride the wave.

And also to say . . .
Thanks Marty, for having the courage and dedication to go after your dreams . . .
You said somewhere that you wanted to make this world a happier place
. . . well you already have


Edited to say: Thanks Palari, for telling me about the cage. I didn't see it until you mentioned it . . . again you were one step ahead of me.

[vulcanet]

Amen to that.

[gaia]

Yep, it's mind boggling how so many well adjusted, sensible people are going to all sorts of trouble ordering CDs, looking at videos and generally digging up anything even remotely connected to Mr. Casey - self included! I'm from Singapore and we're generally known to be practical people who once past the age of 21 are unlikely to do any sort of celebrity worship. But somehow I find myself logging in day after day...

[chk]

franny2, just want to echo your words. It is definitely an IN LOVE thing (not the run away and have babies together kind), but really a recognition of who we used to be, still are (somewhere deep inside) and plan to be again. I thought Marty was fantastic in his performances, but what really sealed the deal for me was how he carried himself -a quiet, intelligent and kind gentleman-- off stage. He and his family and friends reminded me sooooo much of Chicago and all the reasons I love it and still miss it. On top of all that, his band kicks ass. So thanks, Marty. Thanks, Mr. and Mrs. Casey. And thanks, Hammers. You all rock!!!!

[mcConductsMe]

What a nice post franny2! All I can say to that is I've fallen for Marty and the Lovehammers hook, line and sinker too!

[UandMe]

I, too, feel like franny2. I have never been a 'fan' of anyone specific, even as a teenager, but Marty has made me feel so alive and connected. I think for me, it is because he is so genuine in his love of the music. He sings out of passion and not to stroke his ego. He is not afraid to go out and perform from his soul and share with the audience. He is not contrite or predictable.

Through Marty and now the Lovehammers, I have found the music in my soul again. And I am lovin' it. It had been quiet for so long.

Also, I think that we had been ignored as a 'demographic' for so long that it took someone like Marty to show that talent and passion are more attractive than image and egos. Now, don't get me wrong. Marty is a very attractive figure but he is so multi-faceted that I just can't stop watching him.

[jan]

i am a fan of many diffrent people but what frannny2 said it just says what we are all thinking i too have a husband and kids and a house to take care of but i find my self coming here every day it is addicting trying to find out anything we can find of marty and the first time i saw him perform i was hooked too.

[Chayla]

I'm here a lot. I'm single with a job and no other real obligations...other than this. That is what is has become for me, an obligation. my day isn't complete unless I have spent time catching up on the threads I miss while I sleep and while I work. I'm even here when I'm at work (like right now).

Marty gave us so much, I love giving it back, even if this is all I have to give...my time and support.

[keysunset]

I have a full, full life, too. But Marty and the Lovehammers have made it sweeter. Not only am I hooked on Marty, but I'm hooked on his fans too! You guys rock! I love reading the posts. So many crazy talented funny sweet rockin' people. Hmmm, much like Marty?

Have a marty-full day!

[kellysgirl]

It is those eyes, his intelligence, his maturity, and his mesmerizing performances that did it for me. I don't think any of us are crazy......actually we are very smart to be following such an amazing talent.

[scaryisgood]

All I can say is "word" to all of these posts! I can't get the man out of my head - I LOVE listening to what I named my "Hammers/Casey" playlist every day on my iPod. It actually motivates me to get out every day and walk 3 or 4 miles.
I can't wait to see him and the Lovehammers live - I'm just hoping my connection for Vegas tix comes through. I'd be devastated not to see them.
I love this board as well - Marty fans are just THE BEST.

[sheowl]

Oh Franny, I couldnt have described the obsession that is Mmmarty better! Very well said to all of you actually. I too have a very full life, busy as all get out, and never seem to find a moment to myself usually. Not only do I feel like I have made a whole group of new friends here, but phenom that Marty is has reminded me what it is like to be young again - not that I am old mind you, just not a teenager anymore. He also reminds me to keep working at my personal goals too, and not to give up at the slightest hurdle. I am really going to enjoy driving down to Oregon to see him, and hopefully have the opportunity to thank him in person!

[palari]

Why Marty?

Because it is time.

I am an astrologer, that is how I operate, it is how I see the universe. Everything unfolds as it should, in its own time and for its own purpose.

On a human level I was as surprised and confused by my reaction to this beautiful, beautiful man as everybody else.

He moves me, literally moves me. There is a definite physical response to him. My body is in his thrall. Sometimes the surge is so huge I can feel the energy flying out through my fingertips and out of the top of my head...I am charging!! I am not being poetic when I say it feels like my skin is on fire. My skin actually feels like it is on fire...it hurts, it takes my breath away and sometimes it brings me to tears.

I cannot pretend that it is in my head, that I am making it up...this beautiful pain is real. It has purpose.

The fire is burning away everything that is not real or valid in my life. It has made me question every decision I have ever made. It has burned away layers of self deception and insecurity. It has reminded me that I am alive, that I am real, that I feel.

Because it is time.

We all needed to be reminded, we all have so much to give. Marty stepped up to meet his destiny and in the process gave us back our lives.

Wow, f**king Wow!!

[franny2]

Wow, f**king Wow Palari!
I thought I'd see you here - and again you said it better than I did!
I really hate you sometimes


And for everyone else who's answered this so far . . .
you've actually moved me to tears
You all SO get it!

[palari]

Franny,

no need for comparisons girl - which is better bamboo or oak? Depends what you need doesn't it?

I love you too...

Once you got the taste, just a little taste of freedom, you can't go back to living in a cage....

[taxegirl]

You girls are making me cry. You took the words out of my mouth.

Marty

[Chayla]

Palari....

you said exactly what I think we all feel...

thanks, great post : )

[penny74]

Franny and Palari,
You both put into words all that I am feeling. I am so thankful for everyone here - without you all I think I would feel like I am losing my mind. I have never felt like this before - NEVER. There is music in my life again - for the first time in so long.

[Trees]

franny2 said:

I have read every . . . single . . . bloody . . . post . . .on the org since I signed on about a month ago.
Just went back to check and it now stands at 13,331 . . . am i completely off my rocker?

So I've gone back to the question of WHY am I doing this. I have seen many, many members ask themselves the same thing and come up with some great answers, but I thought it would be interesting to hear them again, now that we've been here for a while.

I am a happy, busy person - with a husband, children, pets, and lots of family and friends. I have a house and garden (two fancy words which really mean high maintenance), a career, a shelf full of books I can't wait to read, and I can't even count how many varied interests and little obsessions. I'm not twiddling my thumbs looking for something to do, and yet I come here almost every day to get my fix. Why?

This fascination with Marty really kind of crept up on me. I liked him a lot the first time I saw him, and liked him even more the next. But somewhere along the way I actually fell in love with him . . . not the will you please come and marry me kind of love. . . but in love with who Marty was as a person and as an artist . . . with what he stood for and what he gave, and with the insane heights he reached in his performances.

I loved the way he managed to get inside my soul, to all the secret places I had caged up long ago - probably because I had other things to do. Around the time I started to fall in love with him, the cage doors had already started rattling and by the time Rockstar was over, whatever had been in that cage was in full, headlong flight. I had a burning drive to do . . . something.

I suddenly found energy to go after those things again that I had always been driven to do. I wanted to keep the fires burning so I went looking for The Lovehammers, found mc.org, and against my better judgement got totally and completely hooked. It's like a really good book that I just can't put down. I went looking for Marty, and in the process found all of you. What a fabulous group of people he has reached - every one of you have managed to impress me in some way or another. You are a big part of why I'm here, and the other reason is that, for what he has given me, I would probably follow this man anywhere. We've seen the blossoming of a star . . . it's going to be a wild trip and I really want to be a part of it . . . so I'm here to ride the wave.

And also to say . . .
Thanks Marty, for having the courage and dedication to go after your dreams . . .
You said somewhere that you wanted to make this world a happier place
. . . well you already have


Edited to say: Thanks Palari, for telling me about the cage. I didn't see it until you mentioned it . . . again you were one step ahead of me.

Franny2 just saw this topic and you've taken my breath away. Everything that has been said in replys support this truth of mine for Marty.

Beside falling in Love with Marty (franny2 way) I have also fallen in Love with his Fans (franny2 way)

Just had to stop and breath out so I could breath all the Marty LOve in. Everybody just Rocks here Mentally, Physically Emotionally and best of all Spiritually.

Sure glad I didn't miss this Topic to acknowledge everyone here

[palari]

chayladf1 said:

Palari....

you said exactly what I think we all feel...

thanks, great post : )

Thank you.

I know we all feel it. Thats why we are here...something happened to us and we found each other so that we could feel it together.

I am changed...Marty Casey changed me...I remember now what it means to be a woman...what a gift.