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Post by UandMe on Nov 3, 2007 22:34:32 GMT -5
Oh my, I did not say hello to you both, CF and RJ.  My mind was wandering... |
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Post by cfbj01 on Nov 3, 2007 22:36:33 GMT -5
Oh my, I did not say hello to you both, CF and RJ.  My mind was wandering... Hi U - just trying to read back a bit. Was admiring that pic of the guy that Klees posted. |
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Post by UandMe on Nov 3, 2007 22:36:41 GMT -5
Passive might not be so bad. Nudging is fun. (Say no more!) Emotionally detached is another thing. Sticks of dynamite won't work then. The art is to know the difference without making yourself go insane. Speaking of emotionally detached, I saw my 'unhealthy obsession man' last night. Good god, he's gorgeous. I wanted to bite his ass in the jeans he was wearing. But all I did was walk over, say hello, and leave. And I really thought I had dismissed him from my consciousness in an email exchange about a month ago. What's that Neil Young song? 'Rust never sleeps'? Make that 'Lust never sleeps'. ;D ;D ;D ;D I'm doomed to want the thing I cannot have.  You'll get over it eventually, trust me. It took me three years to get over the last guy, and I never even saw him during that time. It was all my emotional state. Hi CF! I hear ya! The girls were totally laughing this weekend because some guy came up to me at my reunion and asked me about something I said 15 years ago. WTF? 15 years?!?!?  |
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Post by rachael on Nov 3, 2007 22:38:02 GMT -5
You'll get over it eventually, trust me. It took me three years to get over the last guy, and I never even saw him during that time. It was all my emotional state. Hi CF! I hear ya! The girls were totally laughing this weekend because some guy came up to me at my reunion and asked me about something I said 15 years ago. WTF? 15 years?!?!?  no way...15yrs ago.  RJ~love the pic!  |
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Post by klees on Nov 3, 2007 22:38:22 GMT -5
Oh my, I did not say hello to you both, CF and RJ. My mind was wandering... Hi U - just trying to read back a bit. Was admiring that pic of the guy that Klees posted. Isn't he cute! He looks about 20, but I think he's more like 28.  Still robbin the cradle but not as bad.  |
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Post by UandMe on Nov 3, 2007 22:38:55 GMT -5
Fly, seriously. Put whatever thoughts you have over the past guy and focus on 'right here, right now.'  |
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Post by klees on Nov 3, 2007 22:39:27 GMT -5
15 years? That guy needs to move on!
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Post by rachael on Nov 3, 2007 22:40:07 GMT -5
Hi U - just trying to read back a bit. Was admiring that pic of the guy that Klees posted. Isn't he cute! He looks about 20, but I think he's more like 28. Still robbin the cradle but not as bad.  oh, klees, robbing that cradle... ;Dlong as it isn't too bad... |
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Post by UandMe on Nov 3, 2007 22:40:09 GMT -5
Hi U - just trying to read back a bit. Was admiring that pic of the guy that Klees posted. Isn't he cute! He looks about 20, but I think he's more like 28. Still robbin the cradle but not as bad. He is over 18. It's legal. |
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Post by redjasper on Nov 3, 2007 22:40:26 GMT -5
Passive might not be so bad. Nudging is fun. (Say no more!) Emotionally detached is another thing. Sticks of dynamite won't work then. The art is to know the difference without making yourself go insane. Speaking of emotionally detached, I saw my 'unhealthy obsession man' last night. Good god, he's gorgeous. I wanted to bite his ass in the jeans he was wearing. But all I did was walk over, say hello, and leave. And I really thought I had dismissed him from my consciousness in an email exchange about a month ago. What's that Neil Young song? 'Rust never sleeps'? Make that 'Lust never sleeps'. ;D ;D ;D ;D I'm doomed to want the thing I cannot have. Oh RJ, not to make light of what you are going through with that, but you crack me up! ;D ;D  Oh, please. Make light of it. I refuse to be serious about it now. I've already lost 5 years of stalking, plotting, hoping and dreaming. At least we went out on a couple of dates, I got to kiss him and see him almost clothing free (the 'n' word sounds weird to me tonight for some reason). He's got the cutest little butt in black briefs. Oh, and we had a couple of naps together. Napping is nice. We're still friends, but totally at the mercy of his schedule. Que sera sera. ..... ..... I still want to bite his butt. ;D ;D ;D ;D  |
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Post by FlyIntoOblivion on Nov 3, 2007 22:40:30 GMT -5
You'll get over it eventually, trust me. It took me three years to get over the last guy, and I never even saw him during that time. It was all my emotional state. Hi CF! I hear ya! The girls were totally laughing this weekend because some guy came up to me at my reunion and asked me about something I said 15 years ago. WTF? 15 years?!?!? ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Was it something you had said off the cuff? I'd only do that if it was something that was really obvious. Like, when I go to my reunion, I'm going to ask one of my exes if he was referring to me in his speech at our graduation.  |
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Post by klees on Nov 3, 2007 22:40:36 GMT -5
Fly, seriously. Put whatever thoughts you have over the past guy and focus on 'right here, right now.'   Good advice. |
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Post by cfbj01 on Nov 3, 2007 22:41:35 GMT -5
Hi U - just trying to read back a bit. Was admiring that pic of the guy that Klees posted. Isn't he cute! He looks about 20, but I think he's more like 28. Still robbin the cradle but not as bad. Yes, he is a cutie - Not as bad for you that is |
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Post by UandMe on Nov 3, 2007 22:41:58 GMT -5
15 years? That guy needs to move on! Seriously. I mean come on...I can't remember to pack my damn um, necessities. How am I supposed to remember a convo from 15 yrs prior?  |
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Post by rachael on Nov 3, 2007 22:42:02 GMT -5
Isn't he cute! He looks about 20, but I think he's more like 28. Still robbin the cradle but not as bad. He is over 18. It's legal. U!!! oh no!!  |
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Post by FlyIntoOblivion on Nov 3, 2007 22:42:57 GMT -5
Fly, seriously. Put whatever thoughts you have over the past guy and focus on 'right here, right now.' Oh, I'm totally over him now. I was over him even before I met this new guy. The only strange thing was how closure came...but I don't want to talk about that. |
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Post by klees on Nov 3, 2007 22:43:23 GMT -5
Oh RJ, not to make light of what you are going through with that, but you crack me up! ;D ;D Oh, please. Make light of it. I refuse to be serious about it now. I've already lost 5 years of stalking, plotting, hoping and dreaming. At least we went out on a couple of dates, I got to kiss him and see him almost clothing free (the 'n' word sounds weird to me tonight for some reason). He's got the cutest little butt in black briefs. Oh, and we had a couple of naps together. Napping is nice. We're still friends, but totally at the mercy of his schedule. Que sera sera. ..... ..... I still want to bite his butt. ;D ;D ;D ;D  Oh good. I was worried I sounded harsh. It's just your comments about biting his butt... ;D ;D And now I really want to know the rest of that story!  Also, sometimes it's worse to have something but not have it be what you want it or need it to be. At least you had the fantasy. |
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Post by redjasper on Nov 3, 2007 22:43:35 GMT -5
Oh, he's not as gorgeous as Marty, not at all. He's cute and sweet. It's his build - tall and sexy thin. I think he said he was 6' tall. It's hard to say when he's next to Santino, who must qualify as a giant. Did you see the episode when Santino is imitating Tim Gunn? Daniel is laughing. It's so cute. I have the YouTube link if you want to see it. He does have a sweetness about him like Marty. And he seemed very intelligent and grounded. I did see that one...but you can still give me the link. Hi cf! Santino rocks the Tim Gunn!!! |
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Post by FlyIntoOblivion on Nov 3, 2007 22:43:49 GMT -5
He is over 18. It's legal. U!!! oh no!! She has a point.  |
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Post by rachael on Nov 3, 2007 22:44:10 GMT -5
Oh, please. Make light of it. I refuse to be serious about it now. I've already lost 5 years of stalking, plotting, hoping and dreaming. At least we went out on a couple of dates, I got to kiss him and see him almost clothing free (the 'n' word sounds weird to me tonight for some reason). He's got the cutest little butt in black briefs. Oh, and we had a couple of naps together. Napping is nice. We're still friends, but totally at the mercy of his schedule. Que sera sera. ..... ..... I still want to bite his butt. ;D ;D ;D ;D Oh good. I was worried I sounded harsh. It's just your comments about biting his butt... ;D ;D And now I really want to know the rest of that story! Also, sometimes it's worse to have something but not have it be what you want it ot need it to be. At least you had the fantasy. :-[fantasy is nice. |
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