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redjasper:
I just joined mc.org today. I've been lurking since whenever the board started up. I wish I had jumped in earlier, because I would have met more people in Toronto. I hung out with chifan and yerbamate at the show - thanks you guys for making me feel welcome!!! I've been madly obsessed with Marty since Lithium and this was the most amazing concert experience I've ever had!!
(not enough exclamation points and emoticons to describe it.... I'm still in dreamy Martyland
I have pics and I'll post them once I figure out how to use photobucket. Oh, and then there's that avatar thing. I'm a beginner - can you tell?
At some point, I'll tell the story about how I was such a dork at Bovine's - the bar that everyone went to after the show.
My Lee’s Palace experiencePart 1: Toronto– Lesson learned – at all costs, GO TO A SHOW, even if you are alone!!!For my first Marty live experience I went alone to Lee’s Palace because I couldn’t find anyone else to go with.
Not a problem at the club, I started talking to people in line and met some cool folks, including yerbamate. We were almost the first ones to get in, so we got an awesome spot to stand at this raised section to the right of the stage with a long narrow bar to lean up against. I met chifan there, too. Things were going great because I could be crazy about Marty with mc.org fans.
I was beyond psyched while the opening act was on - couldn't wait for them to wrap it up. Then more waiting and getting the scoop from chifan on the wild Lovehammers show to come. Then, Dino, Bobby and Billy are out there - the hyped feeling just before Marty hit the stage was incredible!! I was totally ‘hammered’ from beginning to end. I'm a middle-aged women, but I felt 22 again!! No band has ever made me this pumped. Ever. I was close enough to touch Marty when he walked out on the narrow bar a couple of times, but I didn’t have the nerve. I know I got the blue-eyed-mesmerizing-looking-right-at-me look a few times. Swoon and ultra-swoon. Indescribable!! The man is too perfect and gorgeous... oh, no - I'm hyperventilating again.
I was sweating so much by the end of the show, totally rocking out to every song. Ridiculous!! The crowd was pumped and Marty mentioned it a couple of times. You go, Toronto! There were so many wicked good moments, but one really funny one is worth mentioning. At one point, those white pants were at that dangerously low see-too-much level. So Marty looks at one of the women I had met, who was standing a few feet to the right of me and he says, in this adorable and sexy way, “Are you checking out my butt crack?”
Then he played around pretenting to put on his suspenders for a minute and kept on rockin’. He is so-o-o-o gorgeous.
I didn’t get anywhere near the Meet ‘N Greet table after the show. The line just wasn’t moving at all. I wanted so much to meet the band, especially Marty, and get them to sign my jean jacket. No such luck. All of a sudden, after the big clogging of people and no movement, Marty stands up and hollers “Okay, come on people, let’s get this done – everyone who’s going to Bovine’s we’ll see you there!!!” He came within a foot of me, but he was moving so fast signing a last autograph or two, and then – zoom – he was gone.
So… of course I went to Bovine’s. Part 2 to follow with another lesson learned (how to know you are a dork).
Part 2: Toronto – Lesson learned - How to know you are a dork!!
I could also title this part: “You mean you went all the way to Bovine’s Bar and you didn’t meet Marty?
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Believe it or not… it’s true. I was at the bar and I lost my nerve and I didn’t get to really meet Marty (you'll see what I mean below). I know I can get beyond this because I’ve read a few other stories about the ‘meeting Marty’ moments and it’s not always smooth sailing.
Of course, on the bright side, I did get to be within a couple of feet from him several times in about the half-hour that I was at the bar. In which time I guzzled back a pint of beer faster than I’ve ever done it.
My mc.org buddies, chifan and yerbamate, weren’t there. I recognized a couple of people who had been standing in line at Lee’s Palace, but got cold feet about joining their group. (Serves me right for not joining mc.org sooner.) So I kept moving from spot to spot trying to get closer to Marty. Kind of like a stalker. He was chatting it up with everyone – he’s so adorable and cool.
Suzy McNeil and Tara Sloan were there and he was hanging with them quite a bit, too. Anyway, I felt sort of grungy because I had been sweating so much at the concert. My makeup was sort of smudged up (and I don’t even know how to put it on in the first place) and with each gulp of beer I started to feel like I should get the hell out of the bar. Stat.
After the last swig, I found myself standing next to a gal I thought I had seen in the concert line-up. I said “Well, I’m leaving and I didn’t even get a chance to talk to Marty”. She said something like “That won’t do, come with me” and started to lead me toward Marty, who was standing near Bobby and talking to a couple of girls and a guy. My gut is saying ‘no-no-no’ and then I’m standing right in front of him. Marty. Hotter than hell and sexy and tall and blond and … holy crap!!!
I was wearing this red heart necklace that I had made the night before. Someone had given him a red silky tie a few minutes before and he still had it on. All I could think of was how I wanted to grab the tie and pull him towards me and not let go. Ever. All I could manage to say was “Hey, we match!” as I held up my heart necklace. He looked at me for a second, smiled and went “yeah” or something like that and then walked away towards someone who was calling him. Oh my god!!! How much of a dork could I possibly be?!?
Next thing I knew, he went out the front door with Suzy and Tara and I waiting a second or two and followed them. They were standing together and me… well I was standing alone - stunned – like a deer in the headlights. I turned away for a second and told myself “just go over there and say something, you idiot!” When I turned around, Marty was gone. Vanished – poof! Double dork award for me!!
It was about 2:00 am at this point and I waited there for a minute. No sign of him. Sniff. Sigh. So, I walked down Queen street by myself and got on a Spadina Street streetcar to head for the B&B I was staying at. Hey, it could have been worse. On the walk from the streetcar to the B&B, I came face to face with a skunk!!!
He looked more freaked out than me. I kept walking, a bit faster, then almost running, and never looked back. I think the skunk did the same!
So there’s a humbling and hopefully funny story about what effect Marty can have on us girls. I’ll never forget my first Marty Casey in-the-flesh experience, that’s for sure. But, I will have to go to another Lovehammers concert real soon, so I can have a redo!!